An open letter to Tito Sotto from a daughter of a single parent

An open letter to Tito Sotto from a daughter of a single parent

- A daughter of a 'na-ano lang' wrote an open letter to Senator Tito Sotto

- The sentor ha been under criticism after his remark to Social Welfare secretary Judy Taguiwlo

- Sotto referred to Taguiwalo as 'na-ano lang', mentioning how a single parent is called in street language

Senator Tito Sotto has been under criticism after his 'na--ano lang' remark to single parent, Social Welfare Secretary Judy Taguiwlo.

Many were enraged, saying that the senator's statement was offensive and insensitive amid his clarification that it was meant as a joke.

A daughter of a 'na-ano lang' wrote an open letter to Sen. Sotto.


Senator Tito Sotto (Photo from

Here is what she said:

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Dear Senator Tito Sotto,

It must take a certain kind of intellect to understand the words that come out from your mouth, to appreciate your kind of humor, and to admire the so-called “work” you do as a senator.

I don’t know what I lack, but it has become apparent to me that you are probably one of the reasons why our country is drowning in mediocrity and suffering from divisiveness.

As a son, a daughter, and a basic human being, I don't think you need a brilliant mind to understand, appreciate, and admire a parent’s work.

We’ve all heard it before: fathers and mothers make great sacrifices to give their children a good life.

I mean, you should know that, right? You are a father, after all.

I am certain you know that in a “normal” household, there are two parents working hard and sacrificing their lives to give their children a good life.

But imagine a parent—a person—who is doing it all alone.

Now, now Mr. Senator. I know what you're going to say.

I mean, given your tactless reputation, I'm sure it is along the lines of: “Ayaw kasi magpakasal, e.”

“Ginusto niya ‘yan, e.”

“Nagpa-ano siya, e, kasalanan ko ba ‘yon?”

“Na-ano, e, hindi niya pinag-isipan mabuti.”

“Naka-shorts kasi habang nag-iinuman.”

Oh yes, I can read the headlines now.

You see, Mr. Senator—in case you have forgotten the four pregnancies of your wife and the four children you raised with her—I know you know that being a parent isn’t a joke.

“Na-ano” or not, a woman literally carries the reminder that her life is about to change drastically in the next nine months every single day.

Suddenly, life doesn’t revolve around her anymore.

Everything she will be doing from then on will be for her child.

She will sacrifice everything—and I mean everything!

Her dreams, her ambitions, her goals, her health, her life...

That’s crazy, right? Parenting is a job for two people.

READ ALSO: Sen. Sotto apologizes over 'na-ano lang' remark

But guess what!

There are actually plenty of women out there who were promised a future of a “complete” family only to be left alone penniless and pregnant.

"Why keep the baby? The baby’s the obvious problem here."

Well, she wants to keep the baby and that’s her decision.

Do you have the right to shame her for that? Absolutely not!

But we do have every right to shame you for thinking this whole single parenting thing is a j-o-k-e.

It galls me that you find it comical when a woman chooses to work to the bone so she can, on her own, provide a decent future for the fatherless child she decides to keep.

There is no humor in seeing children growing up without a father or a mother, and witnessing the single parent strive to fill the void in their lives every day.

Thinking about it more, I don’t know why you had to ask Secretary Judy Taguiwalo that “personal question.”

But if your intention was to demean her and her children, then what were you trying to prove?

What were you thinking? That Secretary Judy is in a worse situation as a parent than you are?

Shouldn’t you know any better than some of us that parenting is not a joke? That pregnancy isn’t a punchline?

It isn't funny at all, “na-ano” or otherwise.

If you don’t understand the sensibility of the matter, then I wonder what you know about being human.

And, yes, you guess it right, I did not vote for you.


A daughter of a single mother


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