Nico Bolzico, inaming araw-araw siyang may mabigat na tanong sa sarili bilang ama
- Nico Bolzico admitted he constantly questions whether he is making the right parenting decisions for his two daughters
- He shared that his eldest daughter, Tili, always asks "why," pushing him to balance discipline with raising a confident child
- Nico revealed that both he and wife Solenn Heussaff are still figuring out parenting together, with no perfect answers
- Despite his uncertainties, Nico said being present for his children remains his biggest priority as a father
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Nico Bolzico candidly admitted that fatherhood remains a daily learning experience, saying he constantly wonders whether he is making the right choices while raising his two daughters with wife Solenn Heussaff.
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During his guest appearance on Bianca Gonzalez's Paano Ba 'To podcast alongside first-time father Mikael Daez, the Argentine businessman spoke honestly about the challenges of parenting six-year-old Thylane, fondly called Tili, and three-year-old Maëlys.
According to Nico, becoming a father has taught him that every stage of childhood comes with new uncertainties, making him question his own decisions almost every day.
"Every single day I ask myself, 'Am I doing the right thing?' Especially, okay, so you have now the newborn's challenges. But then the moment they start growing up, they will have their own personalities," he said.
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One of his biggest parenting challenges involves Tili's curious nature. Nico shared that his eldest daughter rarely follows instructions without first asking for an explanation.
"Like Tili at six and a half. She's almost a teenager. She treats me sometimes like 'Where did it come from?' Like, you know, when you tell kids 'Okay go do this, go pick this up for me or like go get me a glass of water.' They do it. My daughter is like, 'Why?' She asks me why all the time," he recalled.
The businessman admitted he constantly struggles to determine how strict he should be while still allowing his daughters to become confident and independent individuals.
"And in my head, 'Okay, should I be like a dictator that you have to do it because I'm your dad or should I do gentle parenting? But I want her to be confident and strong, but I also want her to listen to me and do what I'm telling her about. It's like, what is this balance?" he shared.
He also explained that simply telling his daughter to obey because he is her father has never been effective.
"You need to explain to her why you're asking what you're asking. When you answer her, 'Because I'm your dad, do it,' it doesn't work."
Nico revealed that even Solenn admits they are both learning as parents.
"So every day I'm like, 'Am I doing this right?' I talk to Solenn, and Solenn's like, 'I have no idea.' So it's like, we're both going through this teenage situation right now," he said.
Adding to the challenge is their younger daughter, Maëlys, whom Nico described as naturally mischievous and eager to imitate everything her older sister does.
"Maëlys, who is three years old, is super naughty – like super naughty – and copies her sister a hundred percent. So then I have two not listening to me and dictating what they want me to do for them," he joked.
Nico also admitted that his daughters know exactly how to soften his heart.
"They know you melt for them. Yes. So they use that. They use that they know you're so weak when they're like, 'Papa, por favor.' And I'm like 'Okay, whatever. But don't tell your mom, okay?'" he said.
Despite all the challenges, Nico stressed that his greatest goal is not perfection but raising children who are kind and happy.
"I want my daughters to be good people and happy. That's it. Those are my only two objectives. How to do it? I don't know. I have no idea."
He emphasized that being physically and emotionally present for his daughters has become his top priority, even restructuring his work and social schedule around family time.
"I do know one thing – that being present is important. You have to be there," he said.
Toward the end of the interview, Nico reflected on his own imperfections as a father and acknowledged that parenting is a lifelong process of learning.
"So it's, I don't know, it's like, as a dad, I question myself every single day. I mean, you will never know if you are doing the right thing or the wrong thing. Try to accept your decisions. That's what I do. But I think it's – I'm a very imperfect dad. So it would be a long list of things I need to improve," he concluded.
Nico Bolzico is an Argentine businessman and entrepreneur who founded LM10 Corporation, a company focused on advancing Philippine agribusiness through innovative technologies. He is also a prominent social media personality and content creator in the Philippines, widely recognized for his humorous content alongside his wife, actress Solenn Heussaff.
In another report, Nico Bolzico shared that fatherhood has changed him in unexpected ways, making him more emotional and protective after welcoming his two daughters. The entrepreneur admitted that becoming a parent also made him more aware of his fears and inspired him to be more present in his children's lives.
Meanwhile, Solenn Heussaff gave fans a glimpse into her everyday life as a hands-on mother through a lighthearted and relatable video. The actress showed how she begins her mornings early as she prepares for the many responsibilities that come with parenting.
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