Cai Cortez gets candid about failed marriage, reflects on solo parenting

• Cai Cortez candidly spoke about the failure of her marriage and the challenges of raising two children as a solo mother
• During her guest appearance on Fast Talk With Boy Abunda, she credited her parents for stepping in as co-parents and helping her rebuild her life after the separation
• Cai also recalled how her former husband left a positive first impression before revealing a different side after their wedding
• Although the experience was painful, she said she chooses to focus on the lessons she learned and the blessing of having her children

Actress Cai Cortez candidly spoke about one of the most difficult chapters of her life, sharing how the breakdown of her marriage transformed her into a solo parent and how the unwavering support of her family helped her and her children move forward.

Cai appeared alongside her father, veteran actor Rez Cortez, on Fast Talk With Boy Abunda on July 3, where they openly discussed her failed marriage, the lessons she learned, and her views on divorce.

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During the interview, Cai revealed that she is now raising her two children on her own. She admitted that navigating parenthood without a partner has been incredibly challenging and said she could not have done it without the help of her parents, Rez and his wife, Candy, who stepped in to help care for her children.

Explaining how important their support has been throughout her journey as a solo mother, Cai said, "I'm a solo parent na with my two kids. Hindi ko kaya mag-isa. And thank God mayroon akong parents, who accepted us and talagang really took on the role as my co-parents sa pagpapalaki ng dalawa kong anak."

Rez also recalled the conversation he had with his daughter before she got married. As a father, he said he encouraged Cai to carefully get to know the man she had chosen before making such an important lifelong commitment.

Remembering the advice he gave her at the time, Rez shared, "Ginawa mo ba 'yung homework? Chineck mo ba kung sino siya?" He explained that despite his concerns, he ultimately respected her decision, saying, "Malaki na siya. Alam niya na ang kaniyang ginagawa."

Reflecting on what attracted her to her former husband, Wissem Rkhami, Cai admitted that she was captivated by the image he presented while they were still dating. According to her, he appeared thoughtful, gentle, and almost too good to be true.

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Describing the impression he initially gave her, Cai said, "During that time, ang pinakita niya sa akin, sobrang perfect. Super perfect." She also shared that his appearance reminded her of her Spanish-looking grandfather, whom she had always found handsome, making him even more appealing to her.

However, Cai said everything changed after they exchanged vows. She explained that marriage revealed a completely different side of the man she thought she knew.

Speaking about that painful realization, Cai said, "The day we got married — let's just say who he was, wasn't who I thought he was."

When asked whether she had followed her father's advice to truly know the person she was marrying, Cai said she believed she had done everything she could at the time. Looking back, however, she realized that some people are capable of hiding their true personalities until much later.

Although the experience left her deeply hurt, Cai said she has chosen not to dwell on bitterness. Instead, she now focuses on the lessons she gained from the relationship and the blessings that came from it, especially her children.

Sharing the perspective she has embraced after everything she went through, Cai said, "I wouldn't have my kids kung hindi ko siya nakilala. Kailangan mo maging bobo, para maging matalino."

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Throughout the interview, Cai also expressed support for divorce, believing that some marriages simply cannot be repaired and that people trapped in unhealthy relationships deserve the opportunity to start over.

Despite the emotional hardships she endured, Cai made it clear that she has no regrets about her children and remains grateful for the love and support of her family, who helped her rebuild her life after the collapse of her marriage.

Watch the interview below:

Cai Cortez is a Filipino actress and host who has built a career through various television dramas, comedy programs, and films. Meanwhile, her dad, Rez Cortez is a veteran actor who has appeared in various TV series and movies.

Some years ago, Cai took to Instagram to confidently flaunt her curves in a swimsuit while enjoying a day at the beach. Alongside the stunning photos, the actress shared a heartfelt and lengthy caption about embracing self-confidence and no longer worrying about what others might think. She said there comes a point in life when outside opinions no longer matter as much. Cai added that what truly matters to her is knowing that she is a good person and a loving mother.

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In 2021, Cai turned to Instagram to ask for prayers for her father, veteran actor Rez Cortez, after doctors suspected he had liver cancer. She shared that he was scheduled to undergo surgery to remove a mass and expressed confidence in his strength and determination to recover.

Source: KAMI.com.gh