Hajie Alejandro, may matapang na pahayag tungkol sa pag-aasawa: “Hindi alipin ang asawa”

• Hajie Alejandro recently shared his honest thoughts about marriage, stressing that wives should not be treated as subordinates but as equal partners
• The content creator expressed disappointment over how some women’s lives seem to revolve entirely around their husbands after marriage
• The makeup artist criticized the use of religion to justify male dominance, describing it as a form of toxic masculinity
• The social media personality emphasized that true leadership in marriage means serving, protecting, and loving, not controlling or dictating

Hajie Alejandro recently took to social media to air his sentiments about marriage and the role of husbands and wives in a relationship.

In a Facebook post, the content creator made it clear that he believes marriage should be a partnership built on equality, not hierarchy.

The celebrity expressed how disheartening it is to see women lose their sense of identity after tying the knot. According to Hajie, it is saddening when a wife’s life appears to revolve only around her husband’s wants, ego, and insecurities. He pointed out that in some situations, women are expected to simply follow, adjust, and remain silent.

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The makeup artist also addressed what he described as “toxic masculinity.” He explained that this mindset teaches men that they must always dominate, have the final say, and avoid being questioned.

Hajie further criticized the practice of using religion to justify controlling behavior. The content creator noted that faith should never be used to manipulate or silence a partner.

He stressed that modern marriage is not about a boss-and-employee setup or a king-and-follower dynamic. Instead, it should be a partnership where both individuals are equal in value and dignity, even if they sometimes have different roles.

The social media figure emphasized that true strength in a man is not measured by how much control he has, but by how secure he is with an empowered partner. He added that being the “head of the family” does not mean becoming a dictator.

In his post, Hajie strongly declared, “Hindi alipin ang asawa.”

Although the content creator did not mention any names, many netizens speculated that his post was related to a recent interview involving Alvin Aragon.

In the said interview, Alvin shared that he and his wife, Izzy Trazona, prayed before she went on stage during the SexBomb Girls reunion concert earlier this month.

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As of writing, Hajie has not directly confirmed whether his message was connected to the issue.

Source: ABS-CBN

Izzy Trazona is one of the original and most popular members of the SexBomb Girls, the group that rose to fame through the noontime show Eat Bulaga. However, in recent years, Izzy has been active in promoting a faith-based lifestyle together with Alvin.

The discussion intensified when Alvin Aragon directly questioned the stance of Alex Castro, the husband of Sunshine Garcia. In a report by Kami.com.ph, Alvin explained that for him, truly protecting one’s wife means not putting her in situations where she could be desired by the public because of the way she dresses or the way she dances. His statement sparked comparisons between the two families on social media.

Amid the issue surrounding the image of the SexBomb group, actress Sue Ramirez also shared her opinion about the dignity of dancers. According to a report by Kami.com.ph, the discussion centered on whether being part of the group should be considered shameful or wrong, while emphasizing the talent and dedication of its members to their craft. The conversation became even more heated due to Alvin’s conservative views on dancing.

Source: KAMI.com.gh