Kyline Alcantara talks about why she kept silent on Kobe Paras split: “I still have respect for him”

• Actress Kyline Alcantara revealed that she chose not to speak publicly about her past breakup with Kobe Paras out of continued respect for him and a personal philosophy of showing grace.

• Despite their eventual parting due to differing personalities, Alcantara described the relationship as a "beautiful experience" from which she learned crucial lessons, particularly about boundaries and self-respect

• Kyline confirmed that any initial bitterness has faded, embracing a pragmatic outlook on uncontrollable circumstances and emphasizing the importance of moving forward in life

• She shared a profound perspective on heartbreak, viewing it not just as pain but as an "echo of love" and "privileged grief," signifying that the pain is a testament to having experienced genuine happiness

Kyline Alcantara, a Sparkle star, recently offered a rare glimpse into her personal life, shedding light on her decision to remain silent following her speculated separation from basketball player Kobe Paras.

In a candid interview on the talk show "Fast Talk with Boy Abunda" this past Friday, Alcantara revealed that her primary motivation was rooted in a deep sense of respect for her former partner, despite the challenges that unfolded.

During the interview, the multi-talented actress articulated her choice, stating, "Kaya hindi po ako nagsalita, kasi I still have respect for him as a person despite everything that happened.."

She further emphasized a personal philosophy of grace, adding, "And sa lahat naman po ng mga tao na nasaktan ako, I will always show them grace."

This mature stance on handling a public split resonated with many, offering insight into her approach to navigating personal difficulties under the intense scrutiny of the entertainment industry.

Alcantara characterized her time with Paras as a significant chapter, describing it as a "beautiful experience."

She openly shared, "It was a beautiful experience. I felt really happy. I felt really loved." However, she acknowledged that fundamental differences between them ultimately led to their parting.

"It's just that we're two different people. And that's okay. And that is okay. I've learned a lot of lessons in that relationship," she asserted, signaling a mature acceptance of their divergent paths.

She stressed the invaluable lessons gained from the relationship, vowing to "And I will always treasure every experience or achievements po na nagawa namin dalawa."

The young star also confirmed that any initial feelings of bitterness have long since faded. "I'm not going to lie, at first there's bitterness. But ngayon po, wala na." Alcantara admitted, attributing this shift to her understanding that "Kasi, again, you cannot be bothered by the things that you cannot control."

This pragmatic outlook has seemingly allowed her to move forward from the emotional aftermath of the separation.

Among the pivotal takeaways from her past relationship, Alcantara highlighted the importance of "Knowing your boundaries and having self-respect. Siguro 'yun po 'yung dalawang importante na natutunan po sa relationship na 'yun."

These, she noted, were critical learnings that have shaped her perspective moving forward. When asked if she had fully moved on from the breakup, her response was unequivocal: "Kailangan po natin mag-move forward sa buhay."

Alcantara offered a profound perspective on heartbreak itself, describing it not merely as pain but as an "echo of love."

She elaborated, "I believe that all heartbreaks or breakups are painful because you will experience grief. And grief hurts. It hurts so much. But for me, it's an echo of love. We will mourn something or someone that once made our hearts full."

For her, the act of grieving signifies that a relationship held significant value: "Yun po 'yung masakit. And to grieve is to know that you've had something worth losing. And with that, just that, it is beautiful."

She termed this experience "privileged grief," explaining that it signifies the profound joy and vulnerability of having allowed oneself to genuinely love and be happy with another person.

Concluding her candid discussion, Alcantara shared a universal message about the transformative power of affection: "Loving is a privilege. Loving is a great feeling, Tito Boy. And I hope everyone will feel that. That pure and genuine happiness."

Her reflections offer a nuanced understanding of celebrity relationships, emphasizing personal growth and emotional resilience in the face of public interest.

Kyline Alcantara, who was born on September 3, 2002, is a Filipino actress and singer. The Kapuso star started her career as a child actress after placing in the top ten of the talent search show 'Star Circle Quest.' Kyline played memorable roles in 'Kambal, Karibal' (2017) and 'Bilangin ang Bituin sa Langit' (2020). She has also won a Star Award for Television and a Box Office Entertainment Award. Furthermore, she has also been nominated for an Awit Award and Asian Academy Creative Awards.

During the interview, she also talked about many other things about her breakup with Kobe Paras and why she chose to stay silent during the controversy. The actress said she still respects Kobe and wants to show grace to those who hurt her despite what happened. Kyline described the relationship as a beautiful experience where she felt loved but accepted they were simply different people. She shared that she has let go of bitterness and learned important lessons like setting boundaries and having self-respect.

She also opened up about the deep pain she felt from personal heartbreak and public judgment in her recent controversies. The Kapuso star said she chose to stay silent and show grace rather than fight back publicly about her private life. Kyline emphasized that being a public figure does not mean she owes the public her personal experiences or emotions. She shared that she leaves everything to God, trusting that He sees and hears what she cannot and will handle what needs to be addressed.

Source: KAMI.com.gh