Maxene Magalona gets real about keeping distance from toxic friends, family members
- Maxene Magalona believes that it is inevitable for a person in a healing journey to lose toxic friends and family members
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- It is better to keep a healthy distance from those people if the relationship with them are hindering their healing progress, Maxene wrote
- She explained that forcing a connection and staying in a relationship to keep the peace will create mental and emotional suffering
- The mental health advocate added that a person who kept distance from toxic friends and family members for the sake of his or her healing journey will eventually find new friends
Maxene Magalona shared with her fans and followers on Instagram some words of wisdom about the reality of a person’s healing journey.
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The actress believes that it is inevitable for a person in a healing journey to lose some of their friends and family members who they have toxic relationships with.
According to Maxene, it is better to keep a healthy distance from those people if the relationship with them are hindering their healing progress. Furthermore, forcing a connection and staying in a relationship to keep the peace will create mental and emotional suffering.
However, Maxene believes that a person who kept distance from toxic friends and family members for the sake of his or her healing journey will eventually find new people they will connect with. It is also possible to reunite in the future with those friends and family members when all parties are already in a better mental and emotional state, Maxene shared.
“In your healing journey, whether you like it or not, you will lose friends and relationships along the way—even if they are your family. It’s painful and confusing to say the least but as the golden rule of surrender says, ‘It is what it is.‘
“To heal means to unlearn and remove all the layers of past conditioning, limiting beliefs and toxic behaviors that are no longer serving you. Everything that you learned and experienced as a child, especially the traumas and old beliefs that were unconsciously passed on to you, you will have to let all of that go as you evolve and mature. As you continue to do the inner work everyday to process your pain, heal your wounds and transform yourself, you will inevitably change your energy. While this is very good and healthy for you, it may not be a favorable outcome for the people in your life—especially those who prefer the old version of you.
“If the souls around you are not doing the work to heal and grow, their energy will no longer be a vibrational match to yours. When this happens, it’s up to you to decide whether you will lower your own vibration to meet theirs or stay in your frequency and choose to vibe with the people there.
“This is why we can be friends with someone for so long but feel a deeper connection with someone whom we’ve only met. Remember—time is an illusion. The number of years that you’ve known someone can never compare to the depth and strength of the connection that you share.
“When it comes to family, it is very normal and advisable to take breaks and keep a healthy distance from each other for a while especially if the relationships have already become toxic and unhealthy. During this time apart, it’s important to do the necessary work to heal so that when God reconnects you, you will hopefully be more in harmony with each other.
“Please don’t ever force a connection or stay in a toxic relationship just ‘to keep the peace.‘ Develop a strong relationship with yourself and God and eventually, the Universe will bring your soul family to you,” Maxene wrote.
Maxene Magalona is an actress and social media star in the Philippines. Her father is the late rap legend Francis Magalona. The actress revealed in May 2020 that she has been seeing a psychiatrist due to her mental illness. She used to be married to Rob Manquil but they have already broken up and have gone separate ways. However, it is not yet known as of this writing if they have new partners already.
In a previous report, Maxene uploaded a couple of photos of a beach along with a noteworthy caption about being scared. The daughter of the late Francis Magalona likewise greeted netizens, “Happy Fearless Friday.” Her post then garnered pleasing comments from her followers.
Maxene also looked back on her deep friendship with Glaiza de Castro. On Instagram, the Kapamilya actress uploaded several photos from Glaiza's bridal shower. According to Maxene, the two of them became close ever since they worked together in "Kung Aagawin Mo Ang Lahat Sa Akin." Halfway through her viral post, Maxene said she cannot wait to see Glaiza "rock down the aisle" on her wedding day.
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