Maxene Magalona, aminado sa kanyang toxic trait: “I hate being scolded”

- Maxene Magalona admitted to still having toxic traits up to this day despite years of doing self-healing

- The mental health advocate shared that she has difficulties accepting constructive criticisms

- She flares up, gets defensive, and explodes with anger when being told that she has done something wrong

- The actress believes that this trait was caused by some of the childhood wounds she suffered from people who have hurt her in the past

Maxene Magalona showed her honesty and frankness in an insightful new social media post. On her Instagram account, Maxene admitted to still having toxic traits up to this day despite years of doing self-healing.

One of those toxic straits is her difficulty in peacefully accepting constructive criticisms. According to Maxene, she flares up, gets defensive, and explodes with anger when being told that she has done something wrong.

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She believes that this trait was caused by some of the childhood wounds she suffered from people who have hurt her in the past. For this reason, Maxene emphasized the need to let go of the past and be patient with oneself during the entirety of the healing journey.

“One more toxic trait that I still have up to this day is my inability to gracefully accept constructive criticism. I realized that I absolutely hate being scolded or being told that I did something wrong. I immediately flare up, get defensive and explode with anger. It’s so unattractive and extremely low vibrational.

“One of the many mistakes we often make in our relationships (all relationships, not just romantic ones) as adults is we bring our childhood wounds with us and project them on to our loved ones unconsciously. We tend to act from that wounded place and feel as though the other person is just the same as the ones who hurt us in the past. We carry old wounds with us into new relationships which eventually cause more pain and suffering not just for us but for everyone else around us.

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“As adults, we have to do the work to let go of the past conditioning and old beliefs that we received as children in order to evolve and soon have healthier relationships and a more peaceful life overall.

“Healing takes time so please be patient with yourself. You may find yourself still making mistakes, crying and breaking down once in a while and that’s totally normal. You just have to keep going and releasing your pain until you find yourself crying happy and peaceful tears. Beautiful tears that remind us of the painful growth that we go through to get to where we are today.

“I’m proud of my tears. I’m proud of my strength to face my own pain. No pain, no gain. No rain, no rainbow,” Maxene posted.

Maxene Magalona is an actress and social media star in the Philippines. Her father is the late rap legend Francis Magalona. The actress revealed in May 2020 that she has been seeing a psychiatrist due to her mental illness. She used to be married to Rob Manquil but they have already broken up and have gone separate ways. However, it is not yet known as of this writing if they have new partners already.

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In a previous report, Maxene uploaded a couple of photos of a beach along with a noteworthy caption about being scared. The daughter of the late Francis Magalona likewise greeted netizens, “Happy Fearless Friday.” Her post then garnered pleasing comments from her followers.

Earlier, Maxene also looked back on her deep friendship with Glaiza de Castro. On Instagram, the Kapamilya actress uploaded several photos from Glaiza's bridal shower. According to Maxene, the two of them became close ever since they worked together in "Kung Aagawin Mo Ang Lahat Sa Akin." Halfway through her viral post, Maxene said she cannot wait to see Glaiza "rock down the aisle" on her wedding day.

Source: KAMI.com.gh