Xian Gaza shares his honest opinion on debate regarding divorce in Philippines

- Xian Gaza took to Facebook to share his opinion on the ongoing debate about the legalization of absolute divorce in the Philippines

- According to Xian, it is the individuals in a marriage who can destroy their relationship and not the availability of divorce

- He also urged people who are in stable marriages not to deprive people whose marriages have fallen apart to start anew

- Xian shared an anecdote to prove his point, saying that his uncle's marriage in Japan is going strong for 18 years now while his aunt in the Philippines has been separated from her husband for 16 years already

Social media influencer and businessman Xian Gaza recently took to Facebook to express his views on the ongoing debate about the legalization of absolute divorce in the Philippines.

Xian argued that it is the individuals in a marriage who can destroy their relationship, not the availability of divorce. He also urged those in stable marriages not to deprive others whose marriages have failed of the chance to start anew.

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To illustrate his point, Xian shared an anecdote about his family. He mentioned that his uncle in Japan, where divorce is legal, has been happily married for 18 years. In contrast, his aunt in the Philippines, where divorce is not permitted, has been separated from her husband for 16 years. Xian’s comments have sparked further discussion on the controversial issue.

Here is his full post:

Yung tito ko sa Japan ay kasal sa kanyang Japanese wife for 18 years. They are happily married with 3 kids. One happy family. Take note: may divorce sa bansang Japan.

Yung tita ko naman sa Pinas ay hiwalay sa kanyang asawa for the last 16 years. They have one child na binata. Up to this day, sila ay kasal sa mata ng batas. They are married with conjugal rights. Hindi pwedeng bumili ng ari-arian ang isa kung wala yung pirma ng isa. Bawal mag-apply ng bank loan ang isa kung hindi pipirma yung isa. Wala na sila for 16 years pero hanggang ngayon ay nakatali pa rin sila sa isa't-isa.

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My auntie is very happy with her single life while yung ex-husband naman niya ay masaya din sa buhay kasama ang kanyang life partner. Mayroon silang isang anak. That child is extra-marital and illegitimate kahit ang batang ito ay nabuo out of pagmamahal. The guy cannot marry her life partner because he is still married with my auntie.

Ano yung point ko? First, the presence of divorce in Japan didn't ruin my uncle's family. Hindi totoo na wawasakin ng divorce ang maraming pamilya. Ang sisira sa isang pamilya ay yung mag-asawang involved. Yung dalawang tao. Hindi ang divorce law.

Second, kahit walang divorce sa Pilipinas, nasira pa rin ang pamilya ng tita ko dahil nagloko yung asawa niya. Meaning to say, kesyo may divorce o wala sa isang bansa, broken marriage and broken family will still exist. Kasi kung divorce pala ang wawasak sa isang pamilya, eh 'di sana walang hiwalayan sa bansang Pilipinas.

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Divorce is not the problem. Divorce is the solution to the problem. Divorce doesn't break marriages and families. Divorce fix the lives of the broken family.

Nilalagay nito sa ayos yung kapakanan ng mga bata at yung kapakanan nung dalawang matanda matapos masira ang kanilang pamilya.

Ayaw mo sa divorce because you are very happy with your married life? Then I'm very happy for you.

Pero hindi lahat ay pinalad kagaya mo. Kaya huwag mo sanang ipagkait sa iba yung batas na magbibigay sa kanila ng bagong buhay.

Christian Albert Gaza or Xian Gaza is a social media influencer and entrepreneur. He is well-known for his lavish date proposals to celebrities. Xian trended online after asking BLACKPINK's Jennie out for a date using billboards in the Philippines and Korea. Furthermore, Xian is also famous for his luxurious trips, experiences, and vacations in different countries.

In an earlier social media post, Xian also expressed allegations that the “Taragis tattoo” issue is all but a publicity stunt. The controversial Internet entrepreneur also claimed that the acts of the people involved are allegedly scripted. He then pointed out some things that made him say that it was a publicity stunt and that the actions of the alleged prank victim appeared scripted. It can be recalled that the “Taragis tattoo” issue spread like wildfire online after netizens strongly reacted against the alleged prank.

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He also previously took to Instagram and posted the meeting of his Thai fiancée with Ivana Alawi. He posted a snap on the photo and video sharing app showing Xian's fiancée and the Pinay actress-vlogger together. In the caption, Xian’s girlfriend likewise penned a sweet note addressed to Ivana. On Facebook, Xian also shared the photo and recalled his past conversation with his fiancée about the “FPJ’s Batang Quiapo” star.

Source: KAMI.com.gh