- Xian Gaza was asked by his son why he and his mom broke up many years ago
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- He explained to his son that he had to stay away from him and his mom because his former business partners filed charges against him
- The businessman was sent to jail for his mistakes and he did not want his child to suffer with him
- Xian also revealed that he gave a special gift to his child – his very own credit card
Xian Gaza revealed on social media that his son asked him why he and his mom broke up years ago.
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The influencer-businessman explained to his son that he had to stay away from him and his mom because his former business partners filed charges against him.
Xian was sent to jail for his mistakes and he did not want his child to suffer with him.
According to Xian, not knowing how to handle large amounts of money led to his arrest and this is why he wants his son to be financially literate at a young age.
At the age of 8, the child received a special gift from Xian – a credit card of his own.
“My son finally dropped the biggest question of his childhood yesterday:
“‘Papa, why did the two of you break up? You and my mom. Why, Papa? I wanna know why...’
“Natulala ako for about 10 seconds. Sabi ko ‘Give me 5 minutes, anak. I will explain everything to you.’
“Sinummarize ko ang isang napakahabang kwento in 3 minutes para mas madali niya itong maunawaan. (non-verbatim)
“Sabi ko, I started my own company at the age of 18. Few months later, I met your mom. We lived together in one house. She helped me manage my company.
“Given that Papa was so stupid back then with no proper education and no experience at all, I went bankrupt. I lost all my money. I lost all my businesses. My partners got very angry and they all went to the police. Papa is now a wanted person in the Philippines. The police is chasing Papa until I surrendered, anak. I got jailed. I went to prison, anak. Papa was a prisoner. Papa was a convicted criminal. I lost everything. My life is worthless. I'm a piece of garbage.
“That's why I sent you abroad with your mom. I don't want you to suffer with me. I don't want you to live a very miserable life. I need to let go of your mom. I need to let go of you, anak. I'm very sorry.
“‘So that's why I got separated from you because you don't want me to go to jail with you, Papa? So that I could live a normal life with my mom while you are suffering in the Philippines?’
“‘Yes, anak. Yes.’
“Niyakap niya ako tapos naluha siya. Naiyak na rin ako. Sabi niya ‘I understand now, Papa. I love you so much.’
“Ang regalo ko sa kanya for his 8th birthday ay credit card. Why? Kasi ang puno't dulo kung bakit nagkalintek-lintek ang aking buhay is my very low psychological wallet kaya nung kumita na ko 6 digits per month at a very young age ay hindi ko alam kung paano i-manage ng tama dahil yung utak ko ay sanay lamang sa pa-1K 1K up to 10K kada buwan.
“Pinalaki kasi ako ng lolo't lola ko with a very poor mindset. Hindi ako naturuan kung paano humawak ng malaking pera. Walang nag-train sa akin na kapamilya dahil walang negosyante sa amin. Lahat sila ay mga ordinaryong empleyado lamang. Hindi ako nagabayan sa tamang pagnenegosyo dahil walang business background ang aming pamilya.
“At the age of 21, my personal debt is 13.9 million pesos. Sa kauna-unahang pagkakataon eh tinawag akong "scammer" sa lungsod ng Malabon. The rest is history.
“I won't let my son to suffer like me dahil ako lang din ang mamomroblema sa huli. I will inject rich mindset to his brain. I will train him how to manage his personal finances as early as now. I will program his psychological wallet to millions of pesos even as a child.
“Sa edad na walong taon, he will be financially independent from his mom and from his stepdad.
"I will mentally prepare him towards the good life... the happy life. A life with financial freedom. Why? Because that's what parents do for their children,” Xian wrote on Facebook.
Xian Gaza is a social media influencer and entrepreneur. He is well-known for his lavish date proposals to celebrities. Xian trended online after asking BlackPink’s Jennie out for a date using billboards in the Philippines and Korea. He has also become well-known for spreading rumors about celebrities. Most of the celebrities he gossiped about denied his claims about them.
In a previous report by KAMI, Xian Gaza offered another car gift for TikTokerist Yukii Takahashi for her birthday. The social media influencer explained that his infamous extravagant proposals before were all for publicity stunts. He said that this time he is genuinely giving Yukii the said birthday gift as he is her avid fan. However, he made it clear that he only wants to be her virtual friend, nothing more, nothing less.
In 2017, Xian Gaza shocked many due to his billboard ad asking Erich Gonzales out for coffee. His message on the billboard read, "I can’t even espresso how I like you a latte. Will you… drink coffee with me?”