Alessandra de Rossi, nadismaya sa ilang kaibigang ginagamit lang umano siya
- Alessandra de Rossi opens up about her disappointing experiences with insincere friendships
- The actress says she no longer wants social gatherings centered on appearances and social media posts
- De Rossi reveals that some people befriended her mainly to have her in their photos
- She encourages people to recognize red flags and stop giving endless chances to insincere individuals
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Actress Alessandra de Rossi has opened up about her decision to become more selective about the people she allows into her life, explaining that years of disappointing encounters have changed how she views friendship. The actress revealed that she has grown tired of relationships that appear close on the surface but lack genuine connection and meaningful conversations.
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In a recent interview with ABS-CBN News, de Rossi discussed her experiences with people whose intentions did not seem to match the sincerity she had initially offered them. She explained that she now prefers spending time with individuals who are interested in discussing life and personal growth rather than making social gatherings revolve around appearances.
“Kung gusto nila ng sosyal na life na puro post lang pero walang laman ‘yung buong pagkikita n’yo, na parang sayang lang ‘yung buong araw mo na wala kayong ibang ginawa kundi mag-picture at [ipakita] na maganda ang gamit mo, ayaw ko na.”
The actress admitted that she has reached a point where she no longer finds fulfillment in these kinds of social interactions. For her, meaningful friendships should provide opportunities to exchange thoughts, learn from one another, and discuss experiences beyond material possessions.
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“Ayaw ko na. Mas gusto ko lang ‘yung simpleng tao lang na kausap na pupunta ‘yung usapan tungkol sa life, how we can handle life better. instead of ‘I want to have this, I want to have that, I want to own this, and I will post it.’ Napagod na ako,” de Rossi vulnerably added.
One particularly painful realization involved people she had considered friends for years. According to the actress, some individuals appeared interested in maintaining their connection with her primarily because having her around made their social media posts more appealing.
“‘Yung [ibang] friends ko, kinaibigan lang ako for the photos. Gets mo? ‘Yung mga ganoon na para mai-post lang pero walang laman [ang pag-uusap at pagkikita]. Hindi pala kami close. ‘Yung friendship namin na sobrang tagal na, wala palang ibig sabihin ‘yun.”
Her experiences have also influenced the kind of conversations she now seeks from the people around her. De Rossi said she has developed an interest in subjects such as psychology, trauma, and understanding life's difficulties, making it harder for her to connect with people whose conversations remain focused on celebrities and superficial topics.
“Ang dami kong natutunan about life, psychology, trauma, mga ganyan. Alam mo ‘yung gusto mong may kabatuhan ka [tungkol sa mahahalagang bagay]. Kaya lang kapag kinausap mo ‘yung iba, Kardashians ang topic. Ayaw ko na.”
The actress further acknowledged that having genuine intentions does not necessarily mean the people she encounters will offer the same level of sincerity. She admitted that she once believed her positive outlook would naturally attract people with similar values, only to discover that this was not always the case.
“Kahit gaano ka ka-true, may mga tao sa paligid mo na hindi ‘yun ang intentions. Ako, pure ang intentions ko, so dapat lahat ng maa-attract ko ay pure, ‘di ba? Pero [hindi ganoon ang nangyari]. Hindi siya totoo,” she told ABS-CBN News.
Despite her disappointments, de Rossi shared advice for those who may be experiencing similar situations. Rather than repeatedly making excuses for questionable behavior, she encouraged people to remain authentic while learning when it is time to walk away.
“Just be true to yourself. Darating ang tamang tao para sa’yo. Open your eyes. Once you see a red flag, ‘yun na ‘yun. Tama na ‘yung hope na ‘benefit of the doubt.’”
Her latest revelations come months after her emotional conversation with ABS-CBN anchor Bernadette Sembrano on YouTube in January 2026, which sparked discussions about the challenges of building genuine adult friendships.
Meanwhile, de Rossi is currently promoting Status: Rejected, a film starring Ruby Ruiz that received the Cinemalaya NETPAC Award and Best Actress recognition for its lead star. The movie, directed by Vahn Leinard Pascual and produced by Clever Minds Inc. and Black Cap Pictures, also features Beverly Salviejo and Yani Villarosa.
Alessandra de Rossi is an award-winning Filipino-Italian actress, writer, and director known for her critically acclaimed performances in both independent cinema and television. She has earned numerous prestigious accolades throughout her career, including multiple FAMAS and Gawad Urian Awards, and starred in Kita Kita, which became the highest-grossing Philippine independent film of all time.
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Meanwhile, Alessandra De Rossi addressed claims that she is difficult to work with ahead of an upcoming interview. She explained that she asks for a character’s backstory before agreeing to take on a role and admitted that she has declined projects, including those with titles she considers questionable.
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