Barbie Forteza, may payo sa mga relasyong may "situationship"

• Barbie calls situationships early signs of emotional uncertainty
• The actress urges clarity over mixed signals in modern dating
• Barbie admits falling for someone who wasn’t sure about her
• “Hindi maiiwasan pero maititigil,” Barbie says of blurred relationships

Actress Barbie Forteza believes that so-called “situationships” are often early indicators that someone is unsure about pursuing a real relationship, saying clarity should always come with genuine affection.

Speaking candidly on the Ang Walang Kwentang Podcast, Barbie admitted she has personally experienced being emotionally invested in someone who was uncertain about her.

“Na-fall na ba ako sa hindi sure sa akin? Oo naman,” she disclosed during the interview.

Barbie described situationships as blurred connections that may appear romantic but lack firm direction. According to her, these arrangements can quietly reveal hesitation from one side.

“'Yang situationship na 'yan, isa 'yan sa mga parang early signs of people who aren't sure about you,” she stressed.

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Now approaching her thirties, Barbie shared that she has developed a more straightforward outlook when it comes to love. She explained that for her, recognizing interest is rarely complicated.

“Kasi feeling ko, especially sa edad kong [mag-trentahin] na... 'yang mga ganyan, 'yung mga parang testing the waters ganyan, mga usap-usap, kasi parang napakadali ng love para sa akin or at least for me. Ako, alam ko agad kung bet ko 'yung guy or kung gusto ko siya, kung ipu-pursue ko siya. Kunwari lang, hypothetical, marami akong manliligaw. Pero for sure, dun sa mga manliligaw na 'yun, meron akong mga parang mga ranking,” she pointed out.

She added that certainty, at least on her end, is clear and intentional.

“So in a way, alam ko. Alam ko kung sino 'yung ipu-pursue, alam ko kung sino 'yung mas re-replyan, 'yung ganun. Pero kung sa partner or doon sa other person manggagaling 'yun, mahirap.”

Barbie went on to caution against staying too long in ambiguous setups, saying they may create confusion rather than genuine progress.

“I think 'yan, mga early signs ng mga taong hindi sure sa'yo, mga situationships. So iwasan mo 'yan. 'Yung mga 'pag feeling niyo, nagho-holding hands kayo tapos parang tratuhan niyo friends, parang medyo mali, di ba?”

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However, she acknowledged that such experiences may not always be avoidable at the start.

“Feeling ko hindi maiiwasan pero maititigil. Kasi hindi mo naman malalaman hangga't wala ka dun eh, hangga't hindi ka hino-holding hands, di ba? So kailangan mo siyang ma-experience muna bago mo masabi na, '[Oops] teka lang. Bakit ano pa rin, bakit tropa-tropa pa rin tayo eh may 'pag ano na, 'Kumain ka na ba?' Bakit? Oh, eh ano naman kung kumain na 'ko, di ba?”

Her remarks reflect a growing conversation among public figures about emotional clarity and maturity in modern relationships. For Barbie, certainty is not too much to ask — it is the foundation of something real.

Barbie Forteza is one of the Philippines’ most prominent television actresses, famously dubbed the “Kapuso Primetime Princess.” She first captured audiences’ attention with her role as young Jodi in Stairway to Heaven, a performance that marked the beginning of a flourishing career. Over the years, she has evolved into an award-winning artist, earning acclaim both locally and abroad, including a Best Actress honor at the Fantasporto Film Festival. Headlining successful projects such as Maria Clara at Ibarra and Pulang Araw, she has solidified her reputation as one of the industry’s most influential and versatile leading ladies.

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In another interview, Barbie Forteza shared that she felt a wave of intimidation when she found out she would be collaborating closely with seasoned actress Charo Santos-Concio, admitting that their first meeting left her in awe. However, she revealed that forming convincing on-screen chemistry with the television veteran—who plays her grandmother in the project—proved to be far less daunting than she had imagined. Barbie also acknowledged the role of award-winning director Brillante Mendoza in nurturing a warm and unified working environment, saying his efforts to bring the cast together through shared meals and open interaction helped deepen their rapport beyond the set.

Meanwhile, Charo Santos-Concio delighted fans by sharing a lively “Halukay Ube” dance video featuring herself, Barbie Forteza, and Boots Anson-Roa. The trio confidently showcased their energetic moves while joining the viral dance trend, with Charo’s playful caption teasing a friendly dance face-off that also subtly promoted their upcoming film. The fun-filled clip quickly drew positive reactions online, as netizens expressed excitement to see the actresses’ chemistry translate from their entertaining social media antics to the big screen.

Source: KAMI.com.gh