Coco Martin reflects on life at 44, says learning to stay calm and say no changed him
- Coco Martin shares the life lessons he only began embracing in his 40s
- The actor says he has learned to stay calm and let things pass instead of controlling everything
- Coco reveals he now knows how to say “no” to protect his well-being
- At this stage in life, he wishes for only two things: peace and happiness
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Kapamilya star Coco Martin is entering a new chapter of maturity, openly sharing the lessons he has embraced now that he is 44.
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In a recent interview with Bianca Gonzalez, the "FPJ’s Batang Quiapo" lead actor reflected on the personal changes and realizations he has experienced in his 40s—changes he admits he never expected to value as much as he does now.
According to Coco, one of the most significant shifts in his mindset is learning to stay calm.
“Ako mas nagiging kahit papaano, kumalma. Mas natuto akong mag palagpas ng mga bagay-bagay,” he said, noting how he used to involve himself in everything and insist on how things should be done.
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Now, he finds himself more willing to let things go. Even when he receives a script he’s not entirely happy with, he chooses to respond with grace.
“Honestly, katulad minsan may isesend sa akin na script, hindi ako gaano ka-happy, pero sasabihin ko nalang ah okay ang ganda… Kasi hindi naman lahat mapeperfect mo.”
Coco acknowledged that while he still maintains a high standard for his craft, he has accepted that not everything needs to be a perfect score.
“Basta hindi masama, kumbaga sa 1 to 10, seven yan, okay na yan… Kasi ang hirap na ipilipit mo lahat every time.”
Another major lesson he learned is the importance of saying no—a skill he admits he never used to have.
“Dati lahat para walang masabi sa’yo, ipleplease mo eh… Ngayon sabi ko nga hindi, kumbaga nirereserve ko na to para sa sarili ko,” he said, emphasizing the need to protect his time, energy, and peace.
This, he believes, earns genuine respect.
As he approaches his mid-40s, Coco says he no longer yearns for anything grand. His wish is simple: “peace and happiness.”
Above all, he added, “Ang pinaka importante… yung safe ka at peace ng family mo. That’s it.”
Coco Martin is an actor, director and producer in the Philippines. He is much admired for his performance as Ricardo Dalisay in FPJ’s Ang Probinsyano which lasted on air for seven years. At the end of that series, Coco rested for months and returned to FPJ’s Batang Quiapo.
In an interview with Ogie Diaz, Coco revealed why he doesn’t want to celebrate his birthday. He said he had a bad experience in his youth that he can’t forget up until now. He also remembered what his mother’s reaction was at the time. Despite his unwillingness to celebrate his birthday, he is very grateful to those who remembered him on his special day.
Just recently, Julia Montes celebrated Coco Martin’s birthday with a touching social media post that quickly drew warm reactions from fans and celebrities. The actress shared a photo of Coco smiling during what seemed to be a cozy dinner. In her heartfelt message, she expressed deep love, gratitude, and admiration for the actor. Julia also conveyed how proud she is of Coco’s dedication and success in his career.
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