Julia Montes, ibinunyag sekreto ng pagsasama nila ni Coco Martin: “Siya nga ‘yung naging compass ko”

- Julia Montes revealed in an interview with Karen Davila that the strength of her relationship with Coco Martin stems from their shared values, especially their mutual dedication to family and their grandmothers

- The actress described Martin as her “knight in shining armor” and “compass” during a personally challenging period, stating he provided essential support when she felt lost and prayed for someone to care for her

- She shared that Coco’s unexpected arrival and consistent support were an answer to her prayers, even though she didn't initially realize she was praying for a partner

- The interview offers a rare look into the famously private relationship of Julia and Coco, whose 12-year partnership was publicly confirmed by Martin in May 2023

Julia Montes recently offered a rare and closer glimpse into the foundation of her long-standing relationship with fellow actor Coco Martin, revealing the core values and personal support system that have sustained their partnership.

In a candid interview with broadcast journalist Karen Davila, Montes elaborated on the “secret” behind their enduring bond, a topic that has long captivated fans and the public.

When asked by Karen about the key to their longevity as a couple, Julia emphasized a profound alignment in their priorities. “Pareho kami ng values, pareho kaming maka-lola. Ang priority namin family talaga,” Montes shared. (We share the same values, we both prioritize our grandmothers. Our priority is truly family.)

She highlighted their mutual dedication to family, particularly their grandmothers, as a cornerstone of their connection.

Julia further lauded Coco’s deep-rooted family orientation, describing him as the “true epitome of family-oriented,” not just towards their potential future family but towards his existing relatives, ensuring “Lahat naka-ready. Lahat maayos. Ganun siya kamapagmahal.” (Everything is ready. Everything is in order. That's how loving he is.)

The actress also revealed a deeply personal aspect of their relationship, likening Martin to her “knight in shining armor” and her “compass” during a particularly challenging period in her life.

She recounted a time when she felt profoundly lost and unsure of her own desires, despite knowing what she wanted for her family. It was during this vulnerable phase that she turned to prayer.

“Lagi ko po kasing pinagpi-pray po noon kay Lord, ‘Lord, pagod na ako.’ Lost ako, hindi ko alam kung anong gusto kong gawin for myself... Tapos pray pray lang na parang, ‘Lord gusto ko naman this time may mag-alaga naman saken.’” (I used to always pray to the Lord, ‘Lord, I’m tired.’ I was lost, I didn't know what I wanted to do for myself... Then I would just pray, ‘Lord, this time I want someone to take care of me.’)

She explained that while she wasn’t specifically praying for a romantic partner, Coco unexpectedly entered her life and provided the unwavering support she sought.

“Hindi ko pa na-realize at first na siya ‘yung binibigay ni Lord. Pag may nangyayaring struggle sa life, meron nang sumusuporta sa akin,” she recalled. (I didn't realize at first that he was what the Lord was giving me. When struggles happened in life, there was someone supporting me.)

She noted Martin’s consistent reassurance, quoting his frequent line, “Huwag ka na mamroblema, relax ka lang diyan ako nang bahala.” (Don't worry, just relax, I'll take care of it.)

Julia found this newfound experience of not having to bear stress alone to be the precise answer to her prayers. “Ito ‘yung specific na pinag-pray ko kay Lord. Hindi man as partner, pero binigay ni Lord all in sa kaniya. Kung ano ‘yung pinag-pray mo, ‘yun din ang binibigay ni Lord. Just wait.” (This was exactly what I prayed for to the Lord. Maybe not as a partner, but the Lord gave it all through him. Whatever you pray for, that's what the Lord gives. Just wait.)

The interview offers a rare glimpse into the private world of Julia and Coco, whose relationship has been a subject of long-standing public fascination due to their preference for privacy.

Coco himself publicly confirmed their 12-year partnership in May 2023, solidifying what had long been an open secret in Philippine entertainment.

Their journey, rooted in shared values, mutual understanding, and what Julia describes as a divine intervention, continues to be a source of inspiration for many.

Julia Montes is a famous Filipino actress best known for portraying the role of Clara Del Valle in the remake of the ABS-CBN TV series Mara Clara. In May 2023, Julia and Coco Martin finally admitted they are indeed a couple after years of avoiding the topic.

In the same interview, Julia shared with Karen Davila that she panicked when Coco Martin first showed interest in her, which caused their early romance to falter. Coco got hurt by Julia’s initial reactions as she often tried to bluff him. Their relationship developed later when they worked together again on another project. The actress described Coco as sweet and thoughtful, even surprising her with a pet dog after she complimented other dogs they saw.

She also shared with Karen during the same interview that misunderstandings are normal in her relationship with Coco Martin but they always choose to focus on mutual respect. The actress said they avoid shouting matches because both of them are calm and communicate well. She admitted she used to feel insecure due to the attention Coco received from other women when they were younger. Furthermore, Julia now feels secure because of Coco’s strong values, open communication, and the deep friendship they’ve built over the years.

Source: KAMI.com.gh