Ladies, our men may say they love us but that doesn’t mean he really does. You got to be careful not to believe him right away. My advice is, let him show it. Try to see if he walks the talk and doesn’t just let his mouth do all the action.
Here are a few tells that proves he loves you without him telling you. If by the end of this article you realize that your man does most of them, then that’s good news for you.
1.When you go for shopping with him, he always helps you in dress selection
Trust me when I tell you that men hate shopping. So if he does it with you, and helps you choose rather than just carry your bags, then that means he wants to involve himself with the things you like, and places great effort to helping you look even better. He cares for you, girl!
2.He gives you a good massage whenever you feel tired after a busy day
I’m sure it was also a long day for him, but if he goes out of his way just to give you comfort, you’re one lucky girl.
3.He never shies away from holding your hand in public places.
Men can be shy with holding hands in public, or displaying affection in public. It’s the manly stereotype dictating that doing so isn’t very manly. But if he really loves you he wouldn’t care about it.
4.He surprises you by gifting you the things you have been wishing for a long time
If he gives you things you’ve been wishing for, that means he’s been paying attention. You deserve a man that gives you his attention.
5.Even after a fight, he tries to talk to you and does anything just to make you smile.
It’s sweet if he calms down, swallows his pride and attends to you after a fight. Trust me it’s difficult. But if you’re really important to him, he’ll do it.
6.He always shares everything good or bad happening in his life with you first.
If he shares everything with you, then that means you’ve become part of his world and he trusts you enough to know you won’t judge him or love him any less.
7.Instead of using the word ‘I’ or ‘Me’ while talking, he uses ‘We’ without even realising it
If he unconsciously does this, it means he’s been fantasizing about a life together. It means he’s really serious about you and that you have become part of his life.
8.You are always a part of his big plans in life
A man will not make big plans for a girl he doesn’t love. If he makes this kind of commitment, it means that he’s ready to take all these risks just to be with you even if it means getting hurt in the future.