- Bianca Gonzales just gave birth to her second daughter last October 29
- Having two kids, Bianca shared the real struggle of being a mom by posting it on her Instagram account
-She wanted to express what reality looks like for all moms
Bianca Gonzales honestly shared her day-to-day struggle of having two kids. Being a hands-on mom, she unhesitatingly admitted that it is not easy and there will be times that you will feel distressed.
She even told an exact and detailed story she just had on that day.
"Yesterday was one of those days. I lost my s#!+ and screamed at my toddler when she was being difficult. I cried. Then she cried. We were both crying then my newborn cried because she was hungry and it was time to feed." Bianca wrote.
She described that being a mom is difficult but at the same time a wonderful experience.
"I felt terrible. But it was only 530PM and I still had the rest of the day to deal with. And that night she was still so clingy to me, up til bedtime. Mommy life is and !! God bless all mothers!!"
"And this picture: I was going to take my selfie to document this memory and my puffy eyes as a reminder to stay patient. My toddler saw me, and seemingly aware of what she did wrong, joined me for the picture to try to make me smile. ❤" She added.
The Kapamilya host also reminded everyone that unlike what we always see on social media, parenting isn't that easy. It is not as happy as we see on pictures.
"To end: This is just to balance the motherhood stories we see online.. it's not all picture perfect, its also a lot of messy, stressful days. All part of the journey. ❤ #mommydiaries" She honestly wrote.
The netizens appreciated how honest Bianca is and other moms also thanked her for reminding them that they should not feel guilty for feeling anxious and not okay at times because it is really part of motherhood.
Some of the netizens said:
"t is okay... not to be okay sometimes after all we are all humans.."
"I really appreciate stories like this. Because it reminds me that I'm not a "bad mom" whenever I'm having one of those days.. being a mother really is one fulfilling, roller coaster-like journey..."
"It's never easy being a mom. I also lose my patience at times especially when I'm really tired. Kudos to all moms! Stay strong You're doing a great job"
"Naiyak ako :/ Thanks for making it real and letting other mothers know these things happen. You are a superb mom!"
Bianca Gonzalez-Intal has married a basketball player, JC Intal on December 4, 2014, in El Nido, Palawan
She is a host and a UNICEF supporter.
Bianca also became a PBB housemate and eventually became a host on the said show.
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