- Maricar Reyes revealed what she usually does when she's mad at her husband Richard P0on
- She also revealed her weaknesses with such honesty, things that her husband has to put up with
- Her sound advice can really help a lot of couples who are experiencing rough times
Maricar Reyes received a question, “How do you control your temper when you were so mad with your husband?”
According to PEP, the actress replied through her blog, relationshipmatters.ph
Being married to Richard P0on for four years now, she admitted that they've had a lot of fights already.
Maricar wrote in her blog that she will release her anger by hitting the floor using a pillow, around 10 times.
By doing so, after the physical exertion, it helps to shift her anger and make her feel calm.
"When I’m really REALLY mad, I hit the floor with a pillow around 10 times —very hard. I make sure I’m alone when I do this, because it’s very stressful for anyone to see. The physical exertion drains out some of the anger. In 4 years of marriage, I’ve done this twice.
"I force myself to remember the biggest reasons why I married my husband. Among them is his love for the truth. His extreme honesty has brought intimacy, security, and joy into my life. Our many fights, are not enough to make me want to live without it.
"I remember my weaknesses that he has to put up with, too! I don’t plan, while he is a long-term thinker. He has to explain things to me very slowwwlyyyy if there’s math involved. He’s naturally goal-oriented, and needs to keep checking on my tendencies to be lazy. Etc., etc., etc…"
After doing everything she has mentioned, her anger will turn into something positive, which is to work on a solution together.
"Usually, after doing the 1st, and meditating on the 2nd and 3rd, my emotions stabilize enough to be able to work on a solution together with my husband. It helps soften my heart to apologize when I’m wrong, and accept a sorry from him for any mistakes.
"Mentors always tell me keep my heart soft, so it won’t be quick to form grudges (sama ng loob)."
Maricar Reyes and Richard P0on tied the knot on June 9, 2013 at the Bellevue Hotel in Alabang, Muntinlupa.
The couple became open about their relationship in 2010 and they announced their engagement in April 2013.
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