- A Filipina working in Qatar is in a long-distance relationship
- Her boyfriend was her older sister's ex
- She is proud that their relationship has lasted for a long time
A girl, who wishes to be called "J," wrote KAMI to share her wonderful, meaningful and albeit somewhat sad journey with her current boyfriend, whom she wished would be called as "K."
Yes, her relationship with K was not a walk in the park as they experienced the ups and downs that many couple go through.
According to J, she initially didn't mind K because after all, he was in a relationship with her sister. Added more, she is the silent type due to her cataract.
Due to the characteristics of K and his friend, J started changing for the better where she finally go to interact with people more.
Then after a bit of time that her sister and K broke up, K started courting her.
For four months, he kept on courting her and she kept on refusing because K's ex was his ate while her ex was K's cousin. So they were in a situation where they had a very complex web of relationships.
According to J, she just woke up one day realizing that she loved K.
To cut the long story short, she and K ended up in a relationship and it wasn't a walk in the park at all.
K, according to J, was very possessive and would always accuse her of being unfaithful. So to prove that she loves him, she gave herself to him.
Despite this though, K was still very doubtful. So when she couldn't handle it anymore, she told K that she would break up with him. K refused to let her go and said sorry.
So their whole relationship started on January 24, 2013 and now, K and J are approaching their 5th anniversary.
Now, although J is already in Qatar, their relationship has remained really strong.
Here's her message to K:
"Dad thank you, sa lahat kahit ano ang mangyari alam kong kasama pa rin kita. Kasamang lumuha, masaktan, sumaya, umaraw, umulan o kahit ano pang panahon at problema ang kakaharapin natin alam kong kaya natin ito dahil nagka-ugat na ang ating relasyon na kahit ano pang bagyo ang dumaan ay hindi niya ito matitibag pa. I love you so much, salamat dahil kahit magkalayo tayo karamay pa rin natin nag isa't isa. Kahit sa chat na lang tayo nag-uusap, napaparamdam pa rin natin kung gaano natin kamahal ang isa't isa. Hindi ka siguro maniniwala kung sasabihin ko sayo na hiniling kita sa Diyos, ipinalangin ko sa kanya na sana kung bibigyan niya ako ng mamahalin yung mabait at maunawain, kahit hindi na gwapo dahil hindi naman importante ang itsura, ang mahalaga ay yung mahal ako, mahal kita. Wala sa itsura ang pagmamhal nasa puso yan. At ikaw ang binigay niya sa'kin, isa na lang ang hiling ko sa kanya na sana tumagal at mas lalong maging matibay tayong dalawa para harapin ang bawat pagsubok a darating sa ating buhay.
Ngayon po ay nandito po ako sa Qatar at yung bf ko po ay nasa Pinas. WE MAY BE DISTANCE APArT, BUT NEVER IN HEART. I love you daddy my love mwua."
J and K's relationship may be a bit controversial because of its complexity, but then it has weathered a lot of storms and definitely remains to be really strong.