The feeling of frustration, deception and desolation of a person who discovers that their partner is homosexual is very big and today we tell you in detail what these people suffered.
One of the most difficult experiences that many wives have to face is to see that their ex-partners are praised and classified as brave out of closet, but all ignore the damage left behind.
Emma discovered a year ago that her husband was homosexual and says that, generally, people feel almost homophobic when he tells them anything.
She also says that, for her, it is not brave to spend 10 or 20 years with someone only so in the end they discard you and leave you destroyed.
Emma further explained that they may leave and start a new and wonderful life while leaving their wife devastated.
"You feel like you've wasted your whole life and there's no closure," Emma emphasized.
Not only must women face this harsh reality, Kevin, who is 51, had lived with his wife for seven years. One day she asked if she could go to the guest room so she could be with a woman.
He had no idea she also belonged to LGBT community. She wanted to stay married, but he could not live a lie and they divorced.
They have not spoken since they separated and now she has a partner.
Carol's story is no different, in her case she felt much worse - so to speak - when her ex-husband became a gay rights activist.
She received a message in which her ex-partner was Qualified as an inspiration and a role model.
For her it was a moment that she described as "disgusting" since she could not understand how someone could consider him as a role model or an inspiration.
Something that is agreed by the three people who told their story is that those who can be in the position where they met should ask for help because it is a very strong moment.