You are in your 30s and still unmarried? A sad situation, but if you realize the reasons why it happens, you can change it!
Psychologists explain the reasons why women cannot meet the “right” man:
All your friends are married and possibly with kids. You start sort of falling out of the community, as you do not fit well into their circle anymore. This situation can be helped. Learn how:
1. Mr. Perfect
Some girls are hot and energetic. They are good at work, make their own living and seem to be the perfect matches for the right guy. But that Mr. Perfect somehow fails to come into your life. Why? Well, maybe your expectations are too high?
Psychologists say you might be too choosy. You meet good guys, but you do not give them a chance to be your MR. Right. You become too unapproachable that some of them even do not dare to try it. You may have met him in the past and many times, too, but you missed your chance. Now, no one says you have to lower your standards too much. But regardless of your achievements you remain imperfect. There is no perfect man for the flawed woman!
2. You are too neurotic
Some girls in their 30s get obsessed with the idea of marriage. As soon as they meet a man, they express their desire for marriage eagerly. Not all the guys are ready for it, though. Yes, your biological clock is ticking, but keep it down a bit. Do not let it scare off all the potential matches.
When you get obsessed, you become too neurotic for men to handle you. Some of them think they can treat you badly just because you are so eager for mating.
3. You are out of place
Some girls have no sense of appropriateness. They may turn up in a fancy dress and on high heels at a picnic. Surely, your looks are killer, and your married friends would hate you for that. But also they will eventually stop inviting you over to meet someone special. Plus, a man may think: what if I marry her, and she keeps on doing it? He does not want to feel ashamed of your lack of sense of appropriateness.
4. You are desperate
Men can feel it right away. You wear tiny tops and shortest skirts. Men can see your underwear sticking from under it. You put on tons of makeup and flirt with anyone that comes your way. Admittedly, some of them would take advantage of you, but none will marry. That’s for sure.
If you can place yourself in one or several of these categories, they might be the problem leaving you single in your 30s. The good and bad changes in your life start with you. Be honest with yourself. Revise your life and get refocused. It will help you to get the dreams come true.