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“My husband and I did not have sex before the marriage. I had no idea I would encounter such a problem. We've known each other for about a year. Once we got married, we enjoyed sex many days in a row. We had it few times a day, as I am a sexy woman.
But even when he spends about 5 minutes with me, and we're so into it, that we start having sex, it only takes him about 5 minutes as well. At times he is done even sooner than that. This happens A LOT when I'm on top and from behind as well.
Actually, it happens, either way, we have sex, but more so when I'm on top. He tells me, "I'm sorry, it's just because you're amazing" and even if I'm almost there, it's just done.
He's not a selfish person in bed by all means. He'll make sure that I have enough orgasms not to be able to breathe, or my legs are shaking so bad that I can hardly walk. So, I'm not putting him down at all in that aspect; I just want to know what 'I' can do to make him last a lot longer than 5 minutes. As I've said before, biting, digging my nails into his back, or squeezing him could be toned down a bit to help with this. He's also said that my moaning is what gets him too. And, I don't know if I need to tone that down a bit too. I'm just doing these things in a response of how good it feels.
So, is there anything for our sex to last longer? Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks!”
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