Ladies, we have some good news for you – you got the power over your men. That power is in sex, and you can wisely use it for the good of your family and you!
Men are after the sex. They love it. Most of them are willing to do much if they can get it. Here is what one American psychologist has to say about it:
“Training a man is like training a dog – you use rewards and punishments to bend him to your will.”
You may or may not agree with the statement, but it is worth giving it a try. So, here is a list of things you can do head your man in the right direction.
Use sex as a prize
Once your man does something pleasant for you, do something pleasant for him in return. Reward him. Let’s say he comes home earlier and brings you some flowers or chocolates. Do something special in bed for him. If he likes quick sessions just for his pleasure, do it. Just find something he really loves and save it as a reward. Use it whenever he moves in the right direction to do a good and pleasant thing for you.
Grow cold emotionally
If your man keeps on doing his thing not noticing you or not doing any favors you wish to obtain from him, do this. Withhold your affection for a short while. Show him he hurts you and fails to please you. Give him some reaction to his actions.
Say no to sex
And here is the radical thing to do. Cut him off the access to your body. That is the most practical thing you can do to teach your man a lesson. He has his needs, and that’s Ok, but you have your needs, too. When he fails to satisfy his needs, he gets an idea of how it feels to live like that. Yes, his needs are important, and you should minister to him in this way, but he also got a job to do – pleasing you and meeting your needs.
As you may see, these tips can help you to teach your husband some lessons and make him pay attention to your needs instead of being an egoist.