You’ve probably been seeing your boyfriend from quite some time now, and it’s not a surprise if you’ve thought about whether he is someone you can see ending up together with or not. This is something you have to really think about, you just can’t rush into it. Look at your boyfriend and try to imagine if you can see marrying him, having his kids and spending every day of the rest of your life with him. Although we can never be absolutely sure, there are signs that you can use to know if your boyfriend is someone worth saying “I do” to.
1. He listens to you
This is very important. You can’t be with someone who doesn’t respect you enough to listen to your needs. By listening to you a man will know more about you, your needs and wants, your perspective, and these are important things a man should know about you so you both can look forward to a healthy relationship. Don’t be with a man who does not put any regard to what you have to say.
2. He is genuinely concerned about you
Try to see if he really cares about you and doesn’t just want you to satisfy his needs. Girl, you are more than a toy and you need a man who will wholeheartedly take care of you until you get old.
3. He talks about your future
Now if he starts talking about his future plans and you happened to be in them, then that’s a really good sign. It means he has direction, and it means you matter enough to be part of it.
4. He is ready to make sacrifices for you
If a guy is willing to let go of things he like just for you, believe me he loves you. Sacrificing things for me means you’re at the top of his priority. That’s a guy you can definitely marry.
5. He calls you up for no reason
If you get random calls from him just so he can hear your voice, then you’re one lucky girl. That means that you are who he thinks about when he has free time. It means that the sound of your voice gives him comfort. Your future husband will have to be that crazy about you, because if not, he might easily replace you.
6. He’s interested in your family
Dealing with one’s girlfriend’s family can be tough. There’s a chance that they might not like you, or that they might make strict impositions. But if your man places great effort to get to know your family and getting them to like him, that means that he is already creating a good relationship with them in preparation for the future.
7. He introduces you to his friends
If he brings you to his friends often, that means he’s proud of you, and he wants you to get along with the people he cares about. This means he is trying to be inclusive. More than that, it gives you a sense of security that he is really serious about you, and that he likes you enough to have his friends meet you.
8. He doesn’t pressure you to make love with him
A lot of guys just want to make love. And sometimes you can’t see what their real intentions are. A lot of them leave when women don’t agree or ask to wait. But if you’re guy is really serious, he will wait till you are ready. If he waits, then it means he loves you, and his intentions go beyond lovemaking.
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